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Estimados visitantes de RentMen: MichaelDeCrow eligió responder 11 preguntas de la entrevista que fueron actualizadas por última vez el 17 Jan 2019.

Entrevista

  • ¿Qué tipo de dieta y rutina de ejercicios sigues?
    I don't have a specific diet that I follow but I do things to keep my body active and healthy. I do Yoga each morning to find my center and wake my body up. I like to go on a hike each week to keep myself active and connected to nature. Our bodies come from the Earth and all it's products so keeping that connection with the Earth and nature is important to me. Those things along with not over indulging in anything (positive or otherwise) keeps me in balance.
  • ¿Qué haces para divertirte?
    Hike. I live in Seattle and we have amazing hikes in our area. Every week I'm out on a trail somewhere, communing with nature and getting some good exercise in the process. The hikes are also a great stress reliever and afford me the opportunity to practice my other fun activity, photography.
  • ¿Cuáles son tus características específicas de estilo de vida que te hacen quién eres?
    Variety is the key for me. I enjoy learning new things, playing hard, working hard, hiking, eating, socializing and exploring. I try to do them all in moderation but with a lot of variety. Doing the same thing over and over doesn't bring me the newness that I enjoy or the variety that I require. I like encouraging guys to try something new to bring variety into their lives as well so I make it a point to practice what I preach. When I go to classes to learn about new techniques or processes, I'm constantly thinking how I can incorporate the things into my practice to continually infuse it with newness, variety and growth. By looking at my website at CrowBodyworks.com you can see that I currently offer a wide variety of experiences and I'm always working to add more to that.

    Variety is the spice of my life.
  • ¿Con qué frecuencia viajas? ¿Prefieres viajar o eres una persona hogareña?
    Travel is a passion for me. I love doing it and have traveled to many fun places in my life: India, Spain, France, Italy, England, Australia, New Zealand, Mexico, Canada, The Netherlands and Germany, plus heaps of places within the good old U.S. of A. The travel I have done has definitely changed me and given me a broader perspective on life and especially on how the rest of the world see us in America. As for work, about the only traveling I do is down to Portland occasionally. Ideally I’d love to be able to travel around the globe bringing pleasure with me but it’s just not in the cards for me right now. I’ve spent a lot of time, money and effort making my amazing work studio and know that I offer the very best and more fulfilling experience there where I have all my gear, tools and equipment.
  • ¿Cuál dirías son tus mayores atributos?
    I believe that my greatest attribute is my ability to listen deeply and intently. Before I schedule sessions with clients for BDSM based work, I send them some information to complete for me so that I can get as much info as possible on their desires, fears and boundaries (hard and flexible). I take all of that and then when they arrive, I spend time chatting about any questions I have on it and fleshing out any details that can help make our time together be the best it can be. The key to success with that is deep listening. I make the client the center of my world in our time together and so I listen to all that they say (verbally and non-verbally) to help me figure out how to construct and sequence the session. Since this isn’t about us just fucking, I spend time planning for the session to ensure that their safety and desires are attended to while still keeping it hot and fun for everyone. By spending the time I need to talk with them and listening intently, I’m then able to take all of that information and create a session that rocks their world without them ever having to say a word after our discussion. This lets them drop into sub-space and feel safe and supported while they are there because they know that I heard them. When we feel safe and supported, we can do anything!
  • ¿Cuál es tu "especialidad" o que te apasiona?
    I consider my “niche” to be newbies. I know that there are a lot of men out there who have had curiosities about BDSM/kink play especially in light of the “50 Shades of Grey” book and movie. I love being the one to help them safely explore these desires. I know that as with anything, once you understand the basics then you have a platform to begin deeper exploration from. Many Dom’s are sadists at heart and so they get their erotic charge from you allowing them to do mean things to you. That can be a bit intense for someone who is just beginning to explore their kinkier desires. I don’t consider myself to be a sadist (or masochist) but rather a pleasure facilitator. I can bring you measured pain to help you get to the pleasure sensations that happen in your body when it responds to the painful stimulus but it’s not about the pain for me. The joy for me comes from seeing you surrender to those pleasurable sensations behind the pain. I can of course work with experienced players to get them the intense scene they’re looking for but I prefer to work in the shallower end of the pool to help guys find what works for them and their bodies because I know that will take them much further than having the focus be on me meeting my sadistic needs.
  • Nombra 5 cosas sin las que no puedes vivir.
    Food, water, air, shelter and love. Everything else is just stuff. It’s easy to become emotionally attached to things and think you can’t live without them but as long as I have the basics for living, I have all that I need. Everything else that comes to me beyond that is great and I’m grateful for it but I try not to get attached to it.
  • Si nos sentamos en la playa, a beber y comer solo tú y yo, ¿qué me contarías de tu persona y tu vida?
    I would tell you that I consider myself honored to be doing the work I’m doing. I’ve found work that pleases me to do it, brings me a lot of satisfaction at the end of the day and it allows me to help affect genuine change in the lives of those I work with. In the 9 years that I’ve been doing erotic therapy, I’ve had so many men write me emails and tell me things in person about how our work together has changed them for the better. I know I’m not doing it but I know that I am holding space for them to have experiences which can teach them new things about themselves, their desires and their belief systems. By helping them to bring consciousness to their actions and desires and staying present as we explore them, I know they are healing old wounds and breaking old patterns. The stories they’ve shared with me in private are what keep me going despite the risks and judgments that sex workers face all the time. It’s an absolute honor to know that I am helping guys become better men in their lives and stronger in their relationships. If it were just about hot sex, I don’t think any of that would be happening, but since my work is about helping guys with their desires and not mine, it can literally change everything for them. The really great thing is that because I get to be a part of the experience it changes me as well. I see changes in myself that I can directly attribute to doing this sacred work and I’m extremely grateful for it. I would also tell you that I believe I’m currently engaged in “my calling” for this lifetime and I’m thrilled to have found it.
  • ¿Qué es lo que más te gusta de ti?
    One of the things I enjoy most about my work is being able to work with men who want to learn; learn to push through an old fear or pain, learn to relax and enjoy life more, learn to experience pleasure in a new way or those who learn something about themselves through the deepest layers of pleasure exploration. Typically at the end of a session, I’ll have clients say “I realized today that I….” (hold my breath too much, am afraid of too much pleasure, really can have pleasure through my nipples, or whatever awareness arose during our session). It brings me a great deal of joy to be able to hold space for my clients to explore whatever is needed to bring them peace. Rarely do I have the answer to why they are resisting pleasure in their lives but with conscious exploration, they are able to find their own answers and those are really the ones that matter most to them.
  • ¿Qué te distingue de todas las demás personas que conoces?
    I believe that most guys that you find on sites like this are young, hot and looking for you to worship them and meet their sexual needs. My work is about you. I want guys to know that I'm fully focused on them and their needs and want them to share that focus. It's rare that we can engage an erotic experience and allow ourselves to be focused on our own pleasure and that's what I offer. As men we often are so busy trying to feel pleasure by giving pleasure to someone else that we really lose the experience of feeling pleasure within our own body. My focus is not on trying to make you believe that I'm the hottest guy ever or having you worship me but rather it is on helping you to see yourself as sexy and allowing yourself to feel unconditional pleasure. Pleasure is the great healer.
  • ¿Qué deben saber otros con absoluta certeza acerca de ti?
    That when we are together my full focus is on you and your needs. I make sure that my sexual needs are met outside of my practice so that I don't use you as my sexual outlet and therefore don't make the experience be about my needs. Any type of erotic work should really be about SERVICE to the client; their needs, their desires, their boundaries, their safety and ultimately their satisfaction.